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CorrectObject

Girl asked me to be in relationship

Girl I've known for a while. A little older than me, but very attractive. Figured out her manipulating games a long time ago, thanks in part to a lot of what we discuss here. She plays the damsel in distress, and then slithers her way into your life, and then makes it nearly impossible for you to get rid of her. She is best friends with the District Attorney by the way...yikes. She pits men against each other and starts fights causing men to fight over her. Real snake she is. Anyway, she's been pulling game on me for a while, and the other day finally came right out and asked me to take her back. She wants to move in and have a "real" relationship with me. I told her no, and she asked me why. I had no filter, and blurted out telling her that I didn't want the responsibility. She did NOT like that at all. Not one bit. She blabbered on and lectured me about how impolite that was, and she said I'd never find a woman with that attitude. Surprisingly it didn't bother me, as she is hot, but I'm not addicted to her. Lesson learned though is that I shouldn't have said that, but at least she is leaving me alone now.

Posted Jan 26, 2020, 7:01 PM UTC

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[deleted]•

Oh another manboy, how dare you not be a husband slave and give her commitment your money.

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Chuggapyro•

I find this reply especially funny because wife is literally translated to slave from its Latin origin

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MyFatThumb•

In Spanish wife is esposa, which is handcuff. Those Latin based languages were ... well... based.

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Phantom_Spark•

Best thing you can do often is to give them the silent treatment. It’s over and not happening and not up for discussion. Let them talk and raise their voice while you leave.

Give them nothing...

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thatMGTOWguy•

It’s perfectly okay to say that. Why take up responsibilities which you know you won’t be able to keep up? You did the right thing and keep it unfiltered with people. Saves you a ton of wasted time and drama

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frikabg•

It’s perfectly okay to say that.

Is it? Because I can tell you exactly what a self centered cunt would think. She thinks that by stating that you are implying that she has to be taken care of and that she is a baggage of some sort. In her eyes she is strong and independent woman who needs no men but chose to be in a relationship with one so you better count your lucky stars be grateful that she looks your way and that she chose you! After all don't you know that she can have any man that she wants?

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wwstewart•

Sure. But who really cares?

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thatMGTOWguy•

Why do I care what a self centred cunt thinks ?

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Profitglutton•

She’ll probably like you more since you just straight up told her with no regard for her emotions. And I’d go even farther to say that should be your answer to any time you are asked that by a woman. It will irritate them and probably make them want to try even harder.

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tommy5alami•

Truth 💯

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[deleted]•

You are being beta, BP, here:

telling her that I didn't want the responsibility

You said that because you are conditioned to assume responsibilities that are not yours.

You should have said that you did not believe that she was not able to assume the responsibility, given the past you described.

It's her responsibility that's in the line. Not yours.

Take note of the for your future.

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PipBoyTInkerer•

she wants to move in

Holy fuck no. That's probably like 95% of the reason she wants a "relationship" with you.

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JZSquared•

Looks fade, her charms are nothing but a facade, but MGTOW is forever.

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CommanderOfTheDeath•

When you find yourself on a chinese parade leave, or you may end up in prison.

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DKN3•

Hail Commander

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lucascooky•

Because being honest about what you think and feel is the very definition of being impolite... you should know that man! Those bitches will do anything to shame us as soon as we don’t go their way

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frikabg•

and she said I'd never find a woman with that attitude.

Ohhh no you will never find a woman what are you going to do now...? /sarcasm

The sheer arrogance though! :D It is almost like she is implying that she knows better than you if you need a woman in your life or not? Not only that but she seems to be implying that it is some kind of a threat that 'you will never find a woman that way'. The idea that you might not be interested never even crossed her mind because she is so full of herself that it never occurs to her that in order for a relationship to exist two people must want it not just her.

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wizwocket•

You’ve knowingly invited a soul sucking vampire into your home and life.
Good luck with that...

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CorrectObjectOP•

Moved 30 miles away from her. 2 weeks after I moved in to my new house, I get a knock at my door. It's her. She moved in 2 streets down with an older gentleman. I was shocked.

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RudiMcBallsweat•

YEEET dis bitch outta yo life

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Criket•

Bravo, you truly dodged a bullet !

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Rahim556•

You did it now.... Your rejection will cause her to chase after you 10 times as hard and attempt to bait you with promises (real or just implied) of debauchery, the likes of which you'll never forget. Be aware. Be careful.

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BananaWilly•

Just say you are gay. End of argument, perhaps to become a friendship.

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Metalcrazyx•

"She said I'd never find a woman with that attitude ". Good, we don't want one

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gormagion•

Had she said to me that I'd never find a woman with my attitude, first I'd laugh to her face and then simply said "GOOD!"

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gevalher•

Be wary... Women sometimes seeks the ways to destroy you for something like that!!!

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antifeminist3•

"She blabbered on and lectured me about how impolite that was"

She didn't say you were wrong, just that you shouldn't say it. So you shouldn't say something that is true...

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bamabeatsny•

They HATE it and get the MOST angry like that when you figure out their little game... and tell them. They can't stand it - have a melt down.

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CorrectObjectOP•

Yes. And it's actually kind of sad because the whole time they don't really like you. They just pretend and laugh the whole time at this sucker who thinks he is in some sort of a serious relationship with a woman. They manipulate and toy with men's emotions and it's sad and I definitely won't ever forget being manipulated. So yeah you are right they get real mad when they get discovered.

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