I need advice

So lately I’ve just mentally not been there. My anxiety is off the charts and I can’t even dream of going to school. I talked to my mom about me switching to homeschool. She talked to the counselor and they are working a way for me to get my work done at home until I am feeling better, but my mom’s sister talked to me and I feel like crap. She said that I need to just get through it and that homeschool isn’t right for me. She said I need to get up tomorrow morning. I just finished crying and I want to tell them that I believe I am not stable enough and want to try for the other options. I want to be mentally ok before taking another step. They say that I am almost going to be an adult and I need to learn to make decisions. Am I making the right one deciding to focus on my mental health? Or should I suck it up and go to school like she said? I’m very conflicted.