I [21M] am considering breaking up with my girlfriend [21F] of 3 years.

I've been with my gf for 3 years and things have been great. We work together and have the most amazing chemistry, but lately I'm starting to feel like we're starting to drift apart. I don't want to push her away or get too emotional/fragile, so I try to let things go. I'm not the most emotionally stable person and I like to keep things light and fun.

I've been spending a lot of time at my friends house and going out with my "friend group". I've been spending a lot of time watching tv and listening to music. She's the same way. I've never been the same when I'm with her. I get overly emotional. I have a hard time talking to her without getting emotional myself. It's a serious turn off and I know I need to work on it.

I've been considering breaking up with her over these things. There is a small chance there's something wrong with her, but I'm not sure. I'm not sure about the future either.

I know it's not fair to her or me to end things and I don't want to leave her on the hook for my emotional instability, but I'm trying to avoid it.

What do you all think, I guess.