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bexist

My birthday ended 20 minutes ago. Quarantined birthday was still not my worst birthday. I organized the bedroom closet. Happy 34, I guess.

Posted Mar 25, 2020, 7:21 AM UTC

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NuclearHubristhis cumbersome and heavy body β™ͺβ€’

I made you a gift. I hope you like it.

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bexistOPβ€’

THAT'S MY BOOPY PUPPYBUTT! 😍

Wow, thank you! You just made me cry a little. That was so nice! Thank you for my 3rd birthday present. πŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œ I keep trying not to be down about it, and I know its not like anyone can do anything, but this situation stinks. I feel forgotten, but I also know it's because this virus is causing so much chaos and anxiety.

Thank you thank you thank you!!! 😍

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schweetsunshineβ€’

That was awesome of you dude. If i had money I'd give you an award.

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NuclearHubristhis cumbersome and heavy body β™ͺβ€’

^aw, ^thank ^you! ^<3

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MoonBird39β€’

Happy birthday for 20 minutes ago! (Or 40 since you posted) Good work on organising your closet.

Things are really wonky with the corona virus quarantine everywhere... The days feel boxed in and I can't be sure what is going to happen.

But today you had a day and you were born. That's pretty cool:) I hope it was peaceful.

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bexistOPβ€’

I try not to put too much stock in birthdays because it always feels like as you get older, it just kind of stops being important. But that makes me sad!

My SO's family does a really good job of doing things for birthdays every year. At first, I was like "no, not for me please," but now I'm reconsidering.

Thank you πŸ’œ

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longlegstrawberryβ€’

Re-claiming birthdays as celebrations! Do it! I did it last year with a cake and it was so uncomfortable but also good. This year is my 30th and I was going to really step out of my comfort zone and have a party. Obviously that’s off the table now. But next year! Next year will be my year to really celebrate myself

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sappydarkβ€’

To the OP:

Birthdays are as important as you make them, and since they're still important to you, there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. You can put all the stock in them you want because they're your birthdays. You organized your closet, so that's an accomplishment, and one you made on your birthday, so it's significant.

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pet_geniusβ€’

I'll be 34 soon too and it looks like we'll still be in this mess until then. GJ on the closet.

We survived everything and we'll survive this. Happy bday!

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bexistOPβ€’

The word "survive" always makes me think of Shaun of the Dead, and it is super appropriate right now!

Thank you πŸ’œ

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pet_geniusβ€’

We've just gone into full lockdown here. I'm just praying that we somehow come out of it better than we were going on, as a society. Somehow.

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bexistOPβ€’

Agreed. Of course, I wish we didn't have to go through this... But it's happening, and I hope we learn some things from it. I'm super sad thinking about those of us who will end up dying and truly didn't do anything to warrant getting it to begin with. There are just SO many things this is putting into perspective right now regarding current "issues" and leadership and what we value as a localized society and a world society.

We will get through it, and if it's my time, I'm ok with that. Shit just can't keep going the way it's going.

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pet_geniusβ€’

Exactly. Let's hope we learn from mother nature's big time out.

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olivertoastβ€’

I feel this so hard. Mines tomorrow and I love that I won’t have to see any family and can just spend the day on me.

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bexistOPβ€’

I do love that there were no expectations and I could just do me. But I'm realizing that working through my trauma means I actually want to spend time with the people I've learned to care about, and not even having that option makes it kind of suck. I just feel like my birthday got lost in Coronavirus, and then I feel guilty for even thinking my birthday should matter right now. It's a really ugly sort of catch 22 and a reminder of past birthdays too. Ugh.

On a better note, happy slightly early birthday! πŸŽ‚ 🎁🎈

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olivertoastβ€’

Ugh. Right in the feels. I had plans with friends who I really want to see that have just evaporated. But now it’s like people are dying and I’m worried about going out for a drink?? So much guilt and confusion.

Thank you! And happy belated to you πŸŽ‰πŸ’œ

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Marilou_meβ€’

Happy Birthday in advance!

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olivertoastβ€’

Aw thank you πŸ’œ

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Oedipurrrβ€’

I'm a bit late to the party but happy birthday!! I hope the reddit well wishes kind of made up for your quarantined birthday.

My birthday's in 3 weeks. I really didn't want to be home for it becaue I don't wat to be confronted with how alone I am at this point in my life. Then came COVID-19. I saw you posting that you're trying not to feel down about it, but I completely understand your reaction. This whole sitation stinks. I hope we kind of made up for it.

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bexistOPβ€’

You domake it better. Thank you! πŸ’œ Good luck in a few weeks. We can all wish you a happy birthday then too!

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Oedipurrrβ€’

Thanks. That's sweet πŸ’œ

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WildFeraligatrβ€’

Happy birthday! It's my birthday today too and although quarantine is a bit weird, it could definitely be a lot worse!

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bexistOPβ€’

Thank you and happy birthday!!! πŸŽ‚πŸŽπŸŽˆ

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marianda007β€’

I'll be 33 on April 7. The city I'm in is still scheduled to be on lockdown at that time. I am trying to be optimistic - stocked up on some nice wine and a cake/frosting mix so I can at least make my own birthday cake. I'll be able to celebrate with my boyfriend at least.

But hey, I just organized our closet a few days ago, and that stuff makes me happy whether it's my birthday or not, so I totally get it!!

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bexistOPβ€’

Thank you! 😍 We should all have 1 big giant birthday party together when this is all over.

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PapapauloIIIβ€’

I dont even celebrate my birthday because it triggers me. So... man. That's nice, you're in peace : p

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lmacaroonβ€’

I was 33 on the 23rd and had vertigo. But at least I got a nap! I was reflecting on quarantine birthday too. It wasn’t worse than turning 10, the only year my mom agreed to a party, then the four friends I invited (two sets of twins) all got the puking flu the day of, or β€œgot the puking flu the day of.” It’s been 23 years and I’m still not sure.

Anyways, happy birthday, fellow Aries!

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bexistOPβ€’

Big mood. I had a skate party that not a single person showed up to even though 10 or 15 confirmed. Good riddance!

Thank you 😊

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TullyArcherβ€’

I just turned 34 too! High five!!

For like a dozen years in a row, there was ALWAYS a blizzard on my birthday. Plus, my family unit was an eternal shitshow SO I FEEL YOU. πŸ€£πŸ’©πŸ€£

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Amberleeindyβ€’

Most welcome. My birthday is always the worst day of the year. I get it !!!!! Be strong . Love , peace and strength. πŸ’œβœŒοΈ

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n0timp0rtant03β€’

Happy belated birthday. πŸ’™πŸŽ‰

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bexistOPβ€’

Thank you 😊

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Marilou_meβ€’

Happy Late Birthday!!

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bexistOPβ€’

Thank you 😍

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Marilou_meβ€’

You’re welcome! It’s such a weird time we’re living through right now - I can only imagine how strange it was to have a birthday during it.

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jillianashleybβ€’

Happy belated birthday πŸŽ‰ and well done getting things done!

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bexistOPβ€’

Thank you 😊

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AbuDhabitemeβ€’

Happy late birthday!! Very good of you to tidy that closet.

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bexistOPβ€’

Thank you πŸ₯°

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jesusrguezperezβ€’

Belated happy birthday!

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bexistOPβ€’

Thank you 😊

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[deleted]β€’

HAPPY BIRTHDAY.

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bexistOPβ€’

THANK YOU πŸ’œ

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tootiredtopartyβ€’

Happy birthday!

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bexistOPβ€’

Thank you! 😍

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Amberleeindyβ€’

Happy Birthday! Belated .πŸ₯‚πŸΎπŸŽ‚πŸŽ‰πŸŽŠπŸŽ

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bexistOPβ€’

Thank you ☺️

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glasstleβ€’

Happy belated birthday!!!

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bexistOPβ€’

Thank you! 😍😍😍

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