Teddy Roosevelt has something to say to you...

Although he said a lot of things I do not agree with, here is one quote from him that I admire:

THE MAN IN THE ARENA

Excerpt from the speech "Citizenship In A Republic", delivered at the Sorbonne, in Paris, France on 23 April, 1910

It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer

of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face

is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again,

because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who

knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in

the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so

that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.

Posted Mar 8, 2011, 10:36 AM UTC

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LetsGo•

Reminds me of The Power (and Peril) of Praising Your Kids -- New York Magazine

FTA:

“Emphasizing effort gives a child a variable that they can control. They come to see themselves as in control of their success. Emphasizing natural intelligence takes it out of the child’s control, and it provides no good recipe for responding to a failure.”

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ignatiusRiley•

I guessed that was the quotation I'd find here. A classic.

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Great Quote. I keep a copy of this by my desk and on my mirror. Read that shit everyday.

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ignatiusRiley•

I guessed that was the quotation I'd find here. A classic.

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youcanteatbullets•

I really hate that quote. Critics are your best friends. They tell you what you are doing wrong so you can fix it. You shouldn't be angry at somebody whose helping you.

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SelfImmolationOP•

I think you are reading it the wrong way. I think it is saying that you shouldn't let the critics bring you down - not necessarily a critic but more people who laugh or judge you when you fall. Because those who do didn't have the courage within them to put themselves in your position.

But hey, you are entitled to your likes and dislikes. It would be great if you could post a quote you do like...

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youcanteatbullets•

This is one of my favorites.

Also: "If it were easy, everyone would do it". That's what I tell myself when I'm failing at something.

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rabel•

It's not saying to be angry with your critics, just that it's more important to be struggling and fighting for something than to be the person on the sideline pointing out mistakes and failures. Don't let the critics get you down.

In this case, the "critic" is not necessarily someone offering constructive criticism, which I think we agree can be extremely beneficial, but some fat ass who's never held a football in their hand sitting at home watching a football game criticizing a receiver who missed a pass.

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You win Teddy.

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