NSFW: Should a brave man . . .

Open his psychological buttcheeks as a sign of being unafraid of the rape of another's ill intent? I mean, fighting another's will shows fear, when not caring is more dominant state of mind. And if calling that man a coward is the only drive to change his behavior or attitude, isn't that the same thing, using fear to drive one's reaction instead of intent to choose one's own response?