Do a large number of asian people really hate interracial couples?

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Hello I'm new in this subreddit so I don't know if I'm just seeing this the wrong way and I am completely out of the loop. But I have noticed the amount of people that seemed to hate on the idea of WMAF (I guess white man, asian female).

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So I'm wondering, do the majority here actually hate the idea of an asian female being with a white guy? And is it all asian women with a white guy? I understand some of the reasoning (They hate their race, or white guy finds them exotic, etc) but what if it was an actual healthy relationship? Where they just happened to like each other?

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I'm Filipino and my sister has a white fiancee. They've been together for 6 years and counting and I don't think I've ever really gotten the vibe from my sister that she doesn't like our race of men; she has dated other Filipinos before. She just happened to end up with this guy. And I don't really find her fiancee... predatory? He's kind of a dork and he loves our culture, most especially our food and he loves my sister.

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So I'm just wondering is it all interracial couples that people have a problem on? Or am I missing something. And please be respectful. I am genuinely curious and in no way am I trying to start a flame war or anything.

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(Also if this breaks the rules in any way, I apologize and it can be closed down)

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EDIT: Thank you all for the insight. I've decided to leave the subreddit. There is absolute toxicity in the generalization that all Asian women who ends up with white guys are trash (or whatever reason some of you can come up with). And I find that sad knowing if any of you come across my sister and her fiancee that you will probably lump her in the same category without ever really knowing the couple first. There seems to be just an imbalance and real hate out there for WMAF and I get where it is coming from and the history that came from it. But at the same time, a lot of you guys seem to think that all asian women who are in that relationship are shallow and hate their own kind, when that's not it at all. Not all of them are like that. And I would hate to think that if I had chosen a WM myself (I'm with an AM), I would probably get shunned by this community. So I'll just take my leave

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Thank you to anyone who were able to have a proper discussion with me and to anyone who just throws out hateful comments for the sake of being hateful, I think you and I both know why you're still alone.

Posted Jun 4, 2020, 11:42 PM UTC · edited

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