No one is against you, you just have a poor mindset towards life

It seems like an a good amount of people nowadays seem the “need help” from society or governments or otherwise. I find this behavior deplorable because many people use this “need for help” as a repeated crutch to lean on anytime they fail and as a deflector of any self accountability. Maybe I’m biased, but if you live your whole life believing everyone is against, you’re setting yourself up for failure with an everlasting mindset of contempt for your own mediocrity and poor decision making.