My (M24) girlfriend (F24) of 4 years has gotten fat around her neck recently. I cant ignore it and I don't know how to move forward.

Throw away account! Like the title says, we have been together for four years and living together for almost a year. The relationship is perfect except over the past year her neck has become more fat, and now I dont find her attractive.

It's such a shallow thing to obsess about, but I dont think I can continue as things are. Its a real turn off for me. I've tried ignoring it but its been creeping up on me and now its almost all that I think about when Im with her. I've been becoming more and more anxious and stressed about it. It is definitely infecting other parts of our relationship.

I really don't want to throw away an otherwise perfect relationship, but I have no idea what I can do. Do I talk to her about it? What the hell would I even say? Please help if you can.