Discipline

How do you discipline your 2-3 yo? Meaning, how do you talk to your toddler when they don’t listen, repeatedly? Do you have consequences? What do they look like? We occasionally do time outs and counting and warnings/uh ohs... but I’m getting stumped and my husband can’t set boundaries so eff thissssss.

Edit: fuck I hate parenting with him. I told her no she couldn’t have her toys she threw, and he walked behind me and handed them to her because “they bring her comfort”??? Because you wanted to trump me. You fucking undo every positive effort I try because you have no fucking spine grow the fuck up. This is the kind of shit that makes me want a divorce. Because I’m afraid he’s fucking her up so much sometimes. But i don’t know how 50/50 would be any different. And I do love him. But we’re just not a team.