Autistic girls, what is something you want us boys to know?
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Posted Jul 10, 2020, 7:27 PM UTC
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Wtf. Autism is a huge spectrum. No autistic person is the same. Just ask her about her specifically
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Did I fucking say all autists are the same?
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take a chill pill lol calm down my guy
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Bruh I just came here to ask a question and understand someone i vare about better and yall reply with comments like this
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We can't help too much because we don't know about your gf, thats all. Just relax, we aren't trying to insult you
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relax big man
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lol
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Ulkestad this whole thing was dumb, both sides.
They're giving you an answer, that they can't answer. It's like asking what girls find attractive, everyone is going to be different. The problem is when you say things like this. "Autist" is normally used as an insult and thus makes you seem mad.
The problem is that you're getting mad at people for telling you to ask her. It's not about you being a bad boyfriend or whatever. You're not stupid for asking this. You're just trying to help your girlfriend. That is amazing.
The thing is you're not accepting the answer you're getting.
Nobody is saying you said all autistic people the same, but bringing up the fact that they're not supports the argument that you should ask her specifically about what you can do.
I care about you and I hope you know I make this in good faith.
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I got mad because they didn't answer the question, they said we don't know and stuff like that. I realy got mad when they started mocking me
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They didn't answer but they were giving you advice that you shouldn't be getting your answers here, you should be getting them from your girlfriend
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If she is your gf, why dont you simply ask?
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Just ask her
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Wow, like I haven't done that before
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Then what’s the point of this post? No one will give you a better and more relevant answer than the person in question, your girlfriend.
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It's a spectrum, your better off asking her
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Lol whatt
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You too?
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i don't even know how to respond to this question because it's obviously genuine but it's so funny lmao