Worrying about exwBPD's kid again
Everything's been going so smoothly: I'm still seeing my ex's kid from time to time, and he seems to be doing quite well. I've been the grayest of rocks, keeping the ex out of my life, and she's accepted it and isn't trying to push my boundaries.
But now she's quitting therapy because "it's no longer needed" AND she's on the path to becoming a foster parent! I get that she's probably feeling better and healthier than ever but that doesn't sound like a good combination. I have a bad feeling about this...
Posted Sep 3, 2020, 1:44 PM UTC
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Whoa dude sounds like a fucking train wreck coming your way if you keep this woman in your life. Bpds have a knack for making things worse in the strangest ways
Oh, she definitely isn't and won't be a part of my life. But I'm still quite important to his son and I like spending time with him. I never talk to her about anything except the kid. I'm not worried about myself, I'm pretty good at protecting myself these days. But I'm very afraid that the kid will suffer if things go south. Like you said, sounds like an impending train wreck.
It breaks my heart hearing about the kids of bpds, they always get a really raw deal. I hope whatever happens things work out for him.