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Why do I feel like I am cheating on her?

My babies mother left me and says I left her two months ago. I would like to meet other women to hang out with and enjoy their company but it feels like I am disrespecting or cheating. WTF is that all about?

BTW she says she is dating a couple and has no interest in coming back.

EDIT: I am asking why do I feel this way. I'm not saying I don't know my rights and options. I also never said she left the kid with me. I have been able to see them once for the fourth of july.

Posted Jul 16, 2011, 5:10 PM UTC · edited

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thegouch•

So don't worry about that bitch man, all you have to worry about is your kid. And finding another women to be a decent stepmother, if that's what you want. You're not cheating or doing anything wrong to your kid, but if she really doesn't want to come back and she left you with the kid, then fuck her in my opinion...

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thegouch•

Oh okay, I got you--I'm sorry. You feel like you're cheating because you have a heart. She's the mother of your child and you love them. You're not going to find any solace reflecting on someone that did you wrong (what it seems), and once you move on you'll feel a ton better. I've been there, although not under the same circumstances with a kid. But like I said, keep working for your kid and do stuff for yourself and get over her. You feel like you should be a family, but she doesn't want that. At least not right now. So you have two options: keep away from women and try to win her back (she won't come back because of anything you do, by the way) or you can move on, fuck girls (no kids though, use a rubber) and wait for her to come around if you think she's worth it. Getting over someone you have a deep connection with is very difficult man.

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side2OP•

Thank you for this. Please do explain the part where you said "keep away from women and try to win her back (she won't come back because of anything you do, by the way)"

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thegouch•

I meant that you can't just sit around and sulk and not get pussy. What I'm saying about she's not going to come back bc of anything you do, I mean that there is nothing you can say that will win her back. She'll have to realize it on her own, and that usually takes time. Realizing what it's like for her not to have you since you're not going crazy without her will help her realize maybe

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lotus2471•

Wait, she left you AND the kid? That takes a special kind of woman. And by "special" I mean the kind you're better off without.

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Sorry, judging from this post, you guys should probably have given the baby up for adoption. And next time, use protection. You don't need a whole bunch of girls calling you their "baby daddy."

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That's disgusting.

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