Went on a date, had great time, still don't want to date. wtf

So I have plenty of opportunities to date, get dates, have sexy time, etc. However I feel like I don't want to at all. All I fucking want is my babies mother back. How can she move on yet I'm stuck wanting her. This sucks ass.

Someone please lend a helping hand. I feel like I don't want to go on. I love my kids and will do everything in my power to make them happy but for me... I see no fucking hope of being happy. WTF

Posted Jul 17, 2011, 6:50 AM UTC

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nonatal•

You shouldn't force yourself like that. How long has it been since your break up? It sounds like you're still deeply in the grieving process and just going through the dating life motions. Stop. Find something else to fill up your life like an engrossing hobby or hobbies or exercise your brains out.

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side2OP•

I already burned up all my ideas for my hobbies... i build shit. My apt is kick ass now

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nonatal•

Dude, nice. Way to make yourself extra cool. :D So why not just focus on that, nevermind the dating until you actually want to? It's not like the world will run out of women while you're not there pushing yourself to flirt.

(Am about to go sleep, not sure above actually makes sense, sorry if garbledigurk.)

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assblood•

For starters you probably shouldn't rush into trying to date anyone else. You've got to somehow disconnect your happiness associations from your ex's in your mind. Longing for something you can't have is the worst thing you can do to yourself.

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side2OP•

She did and seems happy or at least says she is happy. I really don't want to tell the story again so I wont but yea...

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