Questions you wished you would have asked at your consult appointment?

I have an initial consult with Dr. Ganor at Boston Children's on December 30th, and am also planning to schedule a consult with Dr. O'Brien Coon at Johns Hopkins.

For those that have had phallo: What are some question that you (or your partner!) wish you would have asked at your initial consult, but did not? Like, things that came up later that you wish you would have known from the get-go.

I am putting together my list of questions, but am worried I will forget to ask something crucial, so any advice is much appreciated!