Wife quit therapy, have a question...

My wife cancelled her future appointments. She battles hypochondria. It’s gotten really really difficult for our family to manage.

I never asked her what they talked about thinking she would tell me what she felt comfortable to tell me.

She told me a few things. The therapist told her to stop checking her blood sugar constantly (she isn’t diabetic), stop reading Facebook forums, and stop googling. This made sense to me since it all seemed to make things worse.

The therapist also told her NOT to talk to me about her worries. Why would the therapist tell her that?

She canceled the appointments because the therapist has warned her she will insist on meds if she doesn’t start following guidance.

I’m exhausted and defeated.