hey everyone, ik this is not the right flair but didn’t know which one would fit better. So getting to the topic at hand, I was wondering, as I’m a straight male, I am not sure if I should tell my gf(when ever that happens lol) I listen to ari or not? like I wanna be my self and listen to who I want without much worry. would that be a turn off ? Cause as of rn, I keep it a secret to my irls
Posted Jan 9, 2021, 3:55 AM UTC
Definitely tell her whenever you feel like it, she would be a shit person to look at you differently because u like to listen a female artist
ok thank u !!! and fr
Like the others are saying if they really loved you they wouldn’t judge you based on who you listen to. But I do think whenever you meet the person you should just tell them when you’re first talking about music you like. You shouldn’t keep it a secret with them. But tbh i’m the same as you because I also keep listening to her music as a secret to those close to me.
that sounds like a good idea when music is brought up ty! and I don’t like having to keep it a secret yk, society needs to change way of thinking what music men should listen to or be like
society needs to change way of thinking what music men should listen to or be like
Fellas, is it gay for a straight male to like a female artist?
This is toxic masculinity, and you're very right, society has no place for it.
I'm not sure how old you are, but this can be a great filter for you. The right partner will not judge you for your interests. Hell, maybe you can sing along together!
Thank u very much!
That’s the dream finding a partner who likes the same music as you. Like imagine singing Ari’s songs together lol.
Yeah same I agree. It’s weird that we would get judged just for listening to a female artist..... But I feel like sooner or later for me people will find out.
Just tell her and own it. I’m a straight male and I’m a bigger fan of Ariana than my gf. She doesn’t think it’s “gay” or that I’m less masculine. Don’t hide it that will just make it a bigger deal.
that makes me feel better thank u and will do when I get a gf lmao
Hell yeah tell her, If she judges you then she clearly isn’t right for you
well do!
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ty !