Upside down sandals

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I used to travel to syria w my family every 2-3 years up until 2009. The building of my grannys house where we stayed had a partially open roof and her house was 2nd floor.

The hallway was basically a long L-shaped balcony out in the open (w rooms along it) so the ceramic floor would be super hot during the day.

(Walking the entire stretch barefoot would force you to start tiptoeing once you reached halfway.)

I found out when i was like 11 that my relatives thought that leaving sandals upside down was haram, because it faced the sky 😂

So one time my granny was mad at me for something and she had me go out barefoot in the hallway and look for upside down shoes/sandals and flip them.

Shit hurt lmao and the worst part is when i got to the end of the hallway i found all the shoes and sandals neatly placed already.

I love my granny tho and when i think back the sight of her on a chair smoking a cigarette while telling me off is comical.

Oh and whistling was also haram because it ”invites the djinns inside your breath”.

Btw my family wasn’t even super strict, we lived in a kurdish damascus suburb while most ”open” conservatives lived on the outskirts lol

Whats weird is after a while it became standard to instinctively flip any upside down sandals.

Ps: ngl i did feel my hasanat increase with each sandal i flipped

Has anyone else experienced this weird rule?

Posted Jan 27, 2021, 1:58 PM UTC · edited

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StormicerettiNew User•

Yes omg whenever my shoes were upside down my dad would yell at me and tell me to flip them over and I was also told to not whistle.

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UltraCentreNew User•

Yes it was considered bad manners to leave the sole facing up, and an adult would tell you to flip it over.

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plisfuckmylifeCloseted. Ex-Sunni 🤫•

i live in india and have non-muslims relatives so i don’t think it’s just a muslim thing. idk maybe it’s just something to keep the sandals and shoes in perfect order or maybe an ocd thing but i’ve gotten used to it now

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OCD never-Muslim American here... can confirm that I do this too. Actually, I leave my shoes outside on my doorstep. All the better to keep dirt out of the apartment.

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A11U45Ex Catholic Agnostic Atheist // Allah Is Gay // Never A Moose•

I found out when i was like 11 that my relatives thought that leaving sandals upside down was haram, because it faced the sky 😂

What the heck?

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baboushcatCloseted ex-muslim 😛 أمصص بظر اللات•

Oh yeah, jinn related omens, whisteling, shoes facing down, stepping on blood, "cutting air" with scissors, responding to what sounded like someone called your name, mistaking noises for adhan, eating/writing with your left hand. All that good shit

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TheCapemanOP•

I remember dropping a small piece of bread on the ground and my uncle told me to pick it up, kiss it and touch my forehead w it.. i was kinda stunned when he said it but then he did it instead to ”show me” how to do it. I was like 10-11.

I appreciate the respect of not throwing food away but it feels like the ritual of kissing it etc. kind of overshadowed the point lmao

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baboushcatCloseted ex-muslim 😛 أمصص بظر اللات•

Aah yes the 5 second rule equivalent in islam, you pick it up brush it with your hand while saying bismillah (to undo the shaytan's doing) and eat it.

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baboushcatCloseted ex-muslim 😛 أمصص بظر اللات•

Aah yes the 5 second rule equivalent in islam, you pick it up brush it with your hand while saying bismillah (to undo the shaytan's doing) and eat it.

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StormicerettiNew User•

My parents taught me that too 💀

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onelinerishereNew User•

Yeah same here. Shoes upside down is like saying fuck you to allah and whistling means inviting djinns)shaytan

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TheCapemanOP•

I’m actually Kurd (dont speak kurdish tho 😭) but i love Syria and have the fondest memories from there. Alot of crazy and fun shit i got to see there.

Where are you from if u dont mind me asking?

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