Any other women feel like they somehow missed an entire course on being feminine?

How the hell do people curl their hair and do their makeup and stuff? It's a huge skillset that I feel like is 100% not given the recognition it deserves because goddamn it is difficult.

I was a very minimalist tomboy until I was like 25, and I feel like it's not a good look to struggle with these kinds of basics, but I want to learn so I have to push through it. I feel like most women look so put together all the time and it baffles me. Anyone else ever feel like this?