Sex, walk me through it.

Good evening, Sexxit!

22 year old female here about to lose her virginity and I was just wondering what a stereotypical play-by-play is like for you!

I assume we'll start by making out.. but then where do I go from there? Do I take initiative and go down on him or will that just get him off to early? Though I've never had sex with someone before, I do know myself pretty well sexually. I've played around with toys so I definitely know what a penetrative orgasm feels like (I guess I consider a virgin someone who hasn't had oral/penetrative sex with a human being) but am pretty sure I'll need clit stimulation to get off too. So should I be rubbing myself too when he's pounding me? I don't want to get off to soon but I don't want him to be finished way before me either.

I'm planning on just relaxing and having fun with it whatever happens, but I'd still like to know how it all goes down for you!