I don't think the women I'm attracted to will make me happy. What can I do or how can I change?

I am attracted to women that I don't think will make me happy on the long term. This would be women who are argumentative, cold, distant, bossy, and just plain mean. Of course attraction always needs to go alongside traits like intelligence and beauty, but I don't think I am drawn to caring, generous, and supportive ladies as much as I rationally should be.

I also can't tell if this is simply an overcompensation for the girl from my longest previous relationship being very nice but needy.

Should I try to change? How can I change?