How to respond in a HV way when LV men ask you about your weaknesses and insecurities?

Hi, I have gotten this rude question a few times in different ways, but there are several ways that it plays out. If I joke that I don't have any weaknesses, or a lady doesn't tell, they usually persist. If I answer a light weakness like being lazy or being impatient, but describe a way that I'm working on it, they usually insist that there must be something worse than that. I'm not going to be stupid and answer anything else.

A few friends suggested that I just joke "are we doing a job interview?", Or just answer that I don't feel comfortable answering, but just wondering whether there is anything better.

Thank you, ladies

Posted Apr 30, 2021, 10:50 AM UTC

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Phoenix__Rising2018FDS Moderator•

"That's a weird question"

Change subject, and don't go on another date with him. Be very careful what else you share for the remainder of the date.

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Summerisle7FDS Specialist•

You don't have to respond at all. Who are these men and why are you talking to LVM at all?

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