Men, what differentiates a girl you're interested in with a female friend?

Hi everyone, I went on a date with a guy and he said he didn't feel chemistry with me, but would be interested in chatting as friends since we had such a great conversation about our hobbies.

That's fair enough, I've been in situations like that myself, and for me, those men who I saw only as friend material were nice people but either:

• not proactive enough
• lacking ambition or were messy career-wise, finance-wise or other self-care aspects of life
• socially awkward
• expressed no actual interest in me as a person (e.g. just talked about themselves/hobbies, didn't show me they were interested - I'm not fishing for compliments but there should be a genuine comment at least once during a date)
• not physically attractive

I am wondering in general what the equivalent would be for women, is it mostly physical for men? Not being flirty enough? Financial? Other? Thanks!

Also sorry everyone for using girl instead of woman, didn't think about it before posting and can't edit it now.