How do you deal with erections?
As an admirer of anal only bois, how do you all deal with erections? Are you okay with them? Do you cage? Do you sometimes jack off when your dicks need release? Or did you completely forget about your dicks already and they can’t get hard anymore?
Posted May 29, 2021, 3:53 AM UTC
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Hi! I love this question. I can't answer it but if you don't mind I'd love to add a little discussion to it. I'm a total top and my bf is a total bottom, when we make love he's almost always soft/flaccid and that's great. He never touches himself. The sex between us is fantastic! One of the rare occasions in which he gets hard is when we are fucking cowgirl style, he loves to do this position, but his hard dick is pointing straight to my face =( I don't like it, I find it odd and it doesn't make me enjoy this position at all. I'd love for him to be soft everywhere in bed.
I don't want to be harsh and tell him that he's doing something wrong because he really is the perfect bottom for me. How should I approach this discussion?
He’s really not doing anything wrong in the biological sense. Have you guys considered a cage, to train him to stay soft?
I don't have experience with cages, but anyways he's almost always soft/limp. In these few months I noticed that he started to stay limp also when he sucks me off. He gets hard only when we do cowgirl, so I think I'll suggest him a jockstrap until he's able to stay always limp. I actually told him that it's kinda disrespectful to stay hard while I'm inside him....
I know what you mean. But don’t belittle him for getting hard. Rather, train his cock with a cage so he will know that the focus is on his pussy.