My own post, ready to get downvoted to oblivion
Posted Jun 3, 2021, 11:42 PM UTC
Posted Jun 3, 2021, 11:42 PM UTC
Many, MANY women on FDS are rape and domestic violence victims, and are tired of being ignored when we ask for help, or accused of lying, or being told to 'Lower your standards, girl'. Tired of being pressured hard for first date sex, while having a guy refuse to give us oral or any real pleasure, or stop watching porn.
I have been raped, I know many men and women that have been raped. We don't turn towards hatred of the other gender. Men, and well as women, are ignored and joked about when they tell people they are raped so they only tell their close friends. Rape is bad, pressuring someone into sexual acts is bad, these are things moral people with empathy can agree on and help each other with. Not generalize people that are fighting the same pain as you. Get rid of the bad from all angles and work together to improve our lives and the lives of the future. I don't want my future daughters or sons to go through the terrible things I have been through. But the only way to stop it is to unite good people
Except in my expat group, when I posted about a man masquerading as a networker who was looking to take advantage of women, it was the women and maybe a couple of men who wanted to 'work together' to protect others. The men of the group, overwhelmingly, attacked my choices, blamed me as a victim, accused me of lying and throwing a little girl tantrum, and dragging an innocent man's name through the mud.
"Except"
Thanks for pushing other victims aside
I beg your pardon? I literally posted about something incredibly upsetting to me and why I find it hard to trust some (not all) men and you just completely ignored and invalidated it.
Lmfao
It's been up 10 minutes, have they banned you yet?
My post was removed and someones comment was removed
They banned me 10 hours ago lol
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