42 [M4F] dc / northern virginia my big brain and heart are bursting with romance

I am a total cake eater. I have an ok marriage and at times things are great and sometimes really crappy. Im not looking to change things, but I know I am seeking more connection, more love, more attention, more caring, and more real hugs and touches. I want to see you across the room at a small concert venue and walk over and say hi. I want to fall madly in love. Im tired of living my love life in a fantasy and I want to make it a reality with one person that gets it and shares my feelings. Opsec is important, use signal, expect you to do the same, Ive done this successfully before and it was amazing until they moved away. Im ready again. Are you?

stats: INTJ 6ft1 220 athletic, dark hair, big eyes, goofy smile and used to be super laid back before kids