Things are looking up!

A couple of weeks ago I sat the SO down and explained that we needed to have sex more and that he needs to be the one who innitiates more often. I told him that the day after the talk, when he gets home from work is the time that he should do so, to start things off. The next day arrived. He came home from work and told me he just needed to finish his book. I waited and waited and nothing. I slept on the couch because I was so mad. Next day arrived and, when he was done with work, he told me that he needed to go home and do laundry. I was so shocked and upset.

I spent the weekend at a friend's house because I was so hurt that he picked a book and doing his laundry over having sex with me. I decided that that was the last straw. Christmas night I told him that we either start having sex or he can grab his things from my apartment and never speak to me again.

He picked the right answer and I have been getting laid for the past three days.

I'm not confident it will last but I'm happy to realize that I have it in me to make a stand for myself. I hope that this does actually last!

*no wall of text now