220 lb 5'5" female. I want to lose weight by lifting. How do I start?

It's pretty much what the title says. I managed to go from 163 to 220 in a little over a year. Depression, laziness, and all those common excuses. I know what I should and shouldn't eat but I don't know how to work out.

Tips?

I want to add that my motivation is how weak I feel and how I'm unable to lift as well as I used to. Things that used to be so light are difficult to lift. I also help take care of my disabled sibling and he's getting more difficult to lift. But that's another story.

I want to be stronger and healthier.