I'm sorry if this was poised before but I can't find it

So I dated this woman for awhile I got to love her she eventually broke it off, we waited to hang out for awhile. We started to hang out and those feelings started to arise again. I remember her saying to give her space so I did, I gave her over a year and got mixed signals from her like; going to concerts with her, visiting other states with get, hanging out with her at her house, we've made out held hands and finally I cake out and told her how I feel, not the complete version because there was a guy inher life that told her he loved her and would be there for her and so on and so fourth. After awhile him and her broke up (he lied about everything and choose to be with his ex) like yids happened less then a week, when I put my feelings or there she says she can't see me more then a friend, how do I deal with that? I love her and have to see her hurt everytime I see her....I would life any help possible cause i'm hurting at three same time, I just want it to stop