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Advice on getting a day 2?

Bare with me here, I try to give more details then needed so you guys don't need to ask shit from me.. Thanks in advance.

So this chick I've been talking to for a few months finally ends up spontaneously coming out friday for "a drink" and ended up staying out all night.. She had to work the next morn (xmas eve) so was originally only planning to be out for a bit..

(Sidenote:) We took 4 cabs throughout the night and she paid for all of them, even though I was (honestly) fighting to pay (at least to split), the cabbie always took her money. so whatever.

We get to the last bar of the night, fast forward, one of my friends is there (james, let's say), and he leaves briefly, so me and hb9 start making out, at last call, james says he is gonna crash at my place since he has no $ to cab home, so I offer him $ for the cab, for some reason she ends up giving him 15$ and tells him to go home (she wanted alone time with me).. We go to my place and make out in my room, she got mad at one point and was considering leaving (my memory is hazy, I was drunk so I can't recall why). After the bar I'm mostly blurry because we did a shot of tequila before we left that blacked me out.

I also gave her a hickey accidentally which I think pissed her off too cuz she worked the next day, and she mentioned the following day she was embarrassed about it. Anyways, she ends up giving me head, then goes home at like 5am.. I walked her to my door and had her msg me when she got home so I knew she was safe.. Don't remember anything between that time.

So anyhoo, I msged her quickly the following day just to see how she was doing, dumb shit, etc.. She seemed fine but maybe a bit distanced, so I haven't msged her since because its been xmas and I figured I'd let her wonder if anything..

So I assume she must be interested because we assume attraction, and also I got domed up plus the investment of $ and (seemingly valuable) time on her behalf.. But I'm not sure how to get a day 2 with her because day 1 was difficult in the first place. Suggestions?

Thanks guys, I know that's a lot to read through. I appreciate it though.

And before someone suggests it, definitely not a oneitis, just always trying to learn and improve.

Posted Dec 29, 2011, 5:31 AM UTC

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