Someone mind giving me a hand with finding some good Gothic music?

I like The Cure and The Smiths... but that's about it. I've listened to Fields of the Nephilim and they're too dark for me. I've listened to Christian Death and they're too -- weak, I guess you could say, same goes for Placebo, it just sounds gay to me. I'm a bit ashamed to admit it, but I use to be a really big fan of Evanescence, I suppose they set the standard for me when I thought of ... 'Gothic' music. What I'm saying is, I'm looking for a band that is less 80'sie (I.E. Corny piano effects and chorus guitars) and more rockish/metal.