Body language

I have found 3 simple, easy things you can do that will make you appear more confident to anyone you meet. These are very small, and with nothing else will probably not amount to much of anything but it is a good starting spot.

1. FIX YOUR POSTURE! Don't slouch. When walking, show off your muscular physique. Suck in your beer belly and puff out your chest (within reason). Throw your shoulders back. It makes your shoulders appear larger (a good thing). Walk the walk. Now this is all within reason. Don't be obnoxious about it but I think if you have any sense at all you will know the limits.

2. Never let your eyes wander to the floor. Never! When walking, your eyes should always be up at eye level. Make eye contact with everyone. Guess what kind of people walk with their eyes on the floor at my school. The band nerds (sorry if anyone is in band- just an example). Guess who walks with their eyes up at everyone in the halls. The jocks. If your eyes are down you are just giving off the vibe that you were made to be ignored. Get those eyes up.

I personally have a problem with this. Sometimes while walking I will find my eyes on the floor. Old habits die hard right? Just make a game out of it. Make a concious effort to NOT do this and eventually the good habit will become habit.

3. Smile when entering a room. When people see you, you want to be viewed as someone who is fun to be around. Don't be a grouch.

See the best thing about these three things is this is not PUA advice. This is just advice on how to make your confidense level higher. That can affect hundreds of different thigs- not just your ability to attract women.

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