Question about Kassam route

I’m trying to get Kassam, so I started the story again, choosing every “chill” option (like not being the centre of attention, staying out of drama, etc) and not wearing premium outfits, but everyone keeps talking about me like I’m extra and a fashionista lmao, I don’t know if this is a glitch or if it happens to everyone? To provide some examples: -I said I was going for Ibrahim, and Marisol said he needed a girl that was more lowkey, and that maybe I’m too extra for him -I said I was going to wear something chill, and Hope said “that’s so unlike you!”

Am I doing something wrong?