Moving forward finally

So, awhile back I set some boundaries with my narc and they refused to respect them.

I refused to cave in and lower the bar even further for them.

I haven’t been able to go NC yet, but I’m working on it.

IMO, it takes a tremendous amount of mental energy to change your mindset about that person. I think it’s taken me a year to really get my brain and heart onboard with letting go of this person.

So much tears, doubt, inner turmoil.

And, this is besides any interactions with the narc.

Don’t give up hope. I’m turning a corner now. It took a year but I’m finally more confident that I can leave this relationship.