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Ex tore up my new hire forms, tape them up & fill out or ask for new ones?

My now abusive ex boyfriend ripped up new hire forms I was filling out for a new job. Should I ask for new ones or tape up tje ones I have and turn them in like that? Will the latter show initiative? I'm embarrassed to ask for new ones before I even start my job, like who does that? My ex justified it by saying I should have already had them filled out and turned in. What's the best option in this situation?

Posted Jul 18, 2021, 3:30 AM UTC

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GameBoy37•

I'm sorry about you relationship issues and you should ask for new ones because if you turned in a taped up form it may give people the wrong ideas that your irresponsible.

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shadescape•

Good thing he’s your ex! I would ask for new ones, personally. I think I would be more than pried about turning in taped up documents. And you can be honest with them about them getting damaged—no need to go into specifics I don’t think!

Good luck at your new job!!

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FlorenceBridgerton•

I think you should ask for new ones and explain... what happened wasn't your fault.

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Runswithchickens•

Tape it up, put it through a copier?

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clockworknait•

You should probably stay away from him. That's messed up and definitely should be avoided.

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