Approached this French girl and told her she was cute, gave me info, on date now. We're getting along fantastically. Suddenly later on she tells me she has bf back in France and was afraid now I won't like her. What do? Want to escalate to more but now what?
Posted Jan 20, 2012, 2:58 AM UTC
Be bold: "You look like the type of girl who could use two boyfriends."
This is now called "pulling a Johnny Bravo!"
Do this. Report back.
I was saying that from experience. It's worked for me.
I've been in your situation and told the boyfriend before, it ended up backfiring on me and causing a shit tonn of drama. I'd just bail.
Dude, she went on a date with you. She's into you. She doesn't give a single fuck about having a boyfriend and she's testing you to see if you have to balls to own up to your intentions.
Yes but she keeps lmr with her "Bf back in france" and will not progress with me. Always resistance. Keeps mentioning when I try close and I get very very very close. How Do I once and for all turn her?
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Think karma man. But if you want to hook up with her call her out on the bf. Get it out in the open acknowlegde her being a hooker act moderately uninterested now you know she has a bf because it against your moral fortitude. She should bite because it isn't against hers obviously.
Hi Cryer. She wants you but is shifting the blame onto you so she won't be morally responsible.
Keep going. This is oral last minute resistance. She didn't give you her info for no reason man. I did the same thing and fucked up trying to break them up. The girl wants to fuck you but wants to keep her boyfriend. Don't get attached to her either. Either reply with ill keep it secret, or something implying you're gonna fuck but you won't tell anybody. :)
Hit it (maybe quit it). Actually, I know it's unethical to most people, but a girl with a long distance relationship is very likely to have something casual nearby. Women have needs to. Not every women, mind you. On my ethical landscape this would be great but I'm not looking for anything super serious. I wouldn't date a women who had a local boyfriend though. I would certainly date this french girl.
oh shit, I thought I was on the OKCupid subreddit. Hell yes, go after this. It could be a shit test. Younger girls especially concoct imaginary boyfriends. You have to plow through especially if it's a 'back in my homeland' story.
Nope she def has bf. how do I get anything out of this?
Just escalate man. Treat her like any girl. Disregard boyfriend part.
She keeps mentioning bf in france though, what do to get k close ?
Is she poly?
bail, there are plenty of other cute girls out there without boyfriends.
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Bang her. Take pictures. Send to boyfriend.
Sail off into the sunset....
Dominate the ground. If shes on a date with you she's obviously got him on the back burner. Don't let it phase you.
Be friendly
Find a way to talk to her BF
Tell her BF
Find a new girl to fuck