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null000

Role Reversal

Just tried it - massively overrated, IMO.

Any other opinions/experiences?

Posted Feb 6, 2012, 6:11 AM UTC

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ahatmadeofshoes12•

I think its different for everyone. I get off on it majorly. I am a female who loves to be dominant (I do like to switch it up sometimes especially if I am receiving pleasure), especially when I am giving pleasure so I do really enjoy role reversal play. Pegging is my ultimate fantasy since it combines 3 of my favorite things: prostate play, role reversal, and anal sex (love giving and receiving anal). Everyone is different though so its perfectly fine that it wasn't your favorite. Kudos for giving it a shot.

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null000OP•

Eh, I didn't really feel anything on the prostate end. I'll admit that we weren't using anything that large, but it was still somewhat disappointing since that was the main upside I had heard in regards to pegging.

I can see the dominance aspect of it though, even if I doubt that we'll be able to get far enough past the act itself to start adding other things to it.

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ahatmadeofshoes12•

Did you play with your cock while you were getting pegged? Prostate stimulation works best if you combine it with genital stimulation. I know from my experiences with anal sex (I don't have a prostate but I love things in my ass) I need clitoral stimulation to really enjoy it. The combination of anal and genital stimulation leads to some of the most intense full body orgasms I've ever experienced. Because the orgasm originates from stimulation in both the anus and the genitals it feels like its originating from a much larger portion of your body. If you want to try things that may hit your prostate more directly try curved toys or a more curved dildo. You may just naturally have a more curved rectum and if this is the case a straight dildo isn't going to hit the prostate as directly as you need it to. Again I don't have a prostate but I regularly do g-spot play which is the female version of prostate play and I know the curve of any toys I use in my vagina makes a big difference since it requires a lot of pressure to get me to squirt. The prostate works similarly so you might want to try more curved toys or your partner's fingers. And by all means don't forget to play with your cock at the same time!

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