Bad breakup
Hi guys, I (20F) need some advice, I’m going through a break up. Last year I started studying at the university and at that moment I was 4 months post break up with my ex. We have been together for more than 2 years, we loved each other but we were kinda toxic, I was depressed and gave him a lot of anxiety, I went to therapy and we became friends and forgave each other, but it’s not about him. At the university I met a (20M) guy, nice, charming intelligent and had my favourite bands shirt when I met him. We started talking I really thought he understood me. We had a really rushed relationship cuz of the pandemic. Our first date was at his home so we became really private really quick. At first he was really helpful with my studies, emotions etc. He had nice friends (ofc I heard a lot of stories of how fun and supportive they are) It was nice. Then I was starting to give everything to him, I spent time to help him with studies, because he wasn’t attending most of classes (online teaching ofc), ordering him food cuz I got a lot more money (my parents support me, he had to work). I started noticing how he grow away from me, he thought he is the most intelligent and I am just childish. He started getting aggressive after drinking verbally and then once even physically. He was often arguing with me and even some randoms at the parties cuz he had to prove his views are the most important and the only right ones. It was pathetic really, he always had to be the center of attention and even though I always justified him. All in all he broke up with me. I am low key happy cuz I know I would be able to do this. We were together for 10 months and I feel really used. (Sorry if there are any mistakes English is not my first language. )
Posted Sep 5, 2021, 1:52 PM UTC