Any motorcycle riders in here? How do you ride for fun?

I loved riding with friends. Where they were heading I was happy to follow, since they knew where the best food stops, best routes, cops, etc., were. But, they left, then I moved, and now I don't really ride anywhere unless I have a destination. Without an objective, I just can't seem to get rolling because I'm always trying to figure out the objective.

Ride to the beach. (I wouldn't hang out at the beach alone.)

Ok, ride to the game store. (Don't need anything.)

Just head to point X on the map. (...why...?)

Let's get food from X. (No friends. Boring.)

Anyone else feel this? I realize its oddly specific, but the people I talk to who ride don't have this issue, they just. Go. And that's baffling to me. And my ADHD is the only thing I can identify that would cause such indecisiveness, as it does with other tasks.

If anyones had something similiar and solved, much appreciated.