Rest in Peace /u/shitpost953

u/shitpost953, also know as u/JerryfromTomandJerry, has passed. He was one of my earliest and closest friends on reddit and discord and, due to his incredibly friendly and outgoing nature, befriended and touched the lives of hundreds in a way that went beyond the superficial. He loved nothing more than to meet and explore new and unique social communities.

A mod of over 650 subreddits, jerry, as his friends knew him, was not at all typical of the often scorned archetype of a "powermod." It was from no thirst for status that he ended up modding so many places. It just naturally flowed from his love of interesting and diverse groups of people and his seeming ability to be known wherever he went. His love of mischief and shit stirring also no doubt played a role, often to hilarious effect. He could talk about almost anything and to almost anyone. He truly loved people. And he went all over to find and befriend new ones. A digital vagabond who left you with a laugh, introductions to new friends and warm memories wherever he went.

And now those of us who knew him well are still blessed with these memories. Although our hearts break we have been touched for life by such a dear and true friend. Jerry came into my life when I was in a social transition. My old social circles had gone by the wayside and new ones were forming here online. Jerry introduced me to so many people who are now some of my dearest friends, very very far from the least of which was he himself. I owe him a tremendous debt for the many kindnesses he showed me, but more for that than any other.

Thank you jerry. I will never forget you.

Posted Sep 15, 2021, 12:42 PM UTC

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ElonMuskarr•

One of my favourite people.

I don't want to put too much emphasis on him always being nice to everyone because that sounds boring when he was anything but.

On the contrary, if I ever felt bored I would just talk to him and he would point me to the latest shitfest that was happening online. From big things like youtubers showing up at each other's houses to fight, to smaller things like 2 random morons on Discord staying in voice chat for 4 hours to argue who hates women the most.

I can't overemphasise how common it was for me to spot a stranger online that I had no relation to, only to find that we both knew Jerry. He knew everyone, and he wanted everyone to know each other as well. And some us were lucky enough to get to talk to him regularly. He really was 'larger than life'. He was one of a kind and I doubt I'll meet someone like him again who was so involved with everyone. Best I can do is to try to be more like him.

I'll be missing you, jerry.

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surfANDmusic•

Just curious how does someone mod 650 subs and servers? At some point after the first 5 I mean efficiency must drop exponentially

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conalfisher•

I've never moderated nearly that much, the most I've moderated actively was give or take 50, but the workload doesn't scale up nearly as linearly as you'd think. It's about as much effort to moderate 10 subs as it is to moderate 50, namely because r/mod exists (it's a sub like r/all except it's for all the subs you moderate, it basically merges all your mod work into the one stream of posts). Remembering specific rules is quite trivial, 90% of subs have "no reposts", "be civil", and "no off-topic posts", and most large subs these days are just streams of generic content anyways, there's not much unique about them besides the specific type of posts. Most subs judge the activity of mods through the number of actions (approvals, removals, locks, etc) per month, and usually that number is around 100. Getting 100 actions is super easy, it's a 20 minutes work per sub, if even. So in general, while 650 is certainly a lot, it is definitely manageable.

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surfANDmusic•

That’s a convenient sub to be aware of. I moderate two subs

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justcool393•

Rest in peace jerry. You were funny, insightful, and were just straight nice to be around. You were a great friend to me and... yeah. I got to know you over the years through reddit and Discord and... well you were someone I consider a true friend.

Thanks for the memories and thanks for being my friend. You won't be forgotten.

Rest in peace <3

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CorvusCalvaria•

This really hurts. He was one of the first people I got to know over Reddit, and he was the most chill and friendly guy I've ever had the opportunity to meet online. He could easily get along with pretty much everyone and it was always admirable to see.

Rest well buddy.

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CthulubeFlavorcube•

Sorry you lost your homey, homey. He sounds like a sweetheart.

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iammrpositive•

I’ll always miss Jerry. He wasn’t the negative stereotype of “power mod” at all. He was one of a seemingly dying breed of moderators (especially on Reddit) who genuinely just enjoyed the internet. He just seemed to love meeting people and having fun. He helped me a lot when I was starting Cringetopia and I’m sure his username will remain on my list and many others. I’m sure a lot of us wish we’d had a better way to reach out even though there’s often nothing that can be done, because he’s not the only one who has struggled with similar issues. Jerry’s death hits hard and it hits different because this could just as easily have been me or many others. RIP King. Say hi to Dumbs for me. Gone but definitely not forgotten.

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dontcallmefudge•

Say hi to Dumbs for me

T_dumbs? I missed that one..

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iammrpositive•

Yeah, sadly.

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kwashipoc•

GNU

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What you are referring to as GNU is in fact (Or as i like to call it, Linux+GNU) called Linux/GNU...

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Damn, Jerry’s dead??? I hope he’s shitposting in heaven. Sorry for your loss dude.

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The_Dramanomicon•

I didn't know Jerry as well as some but I did know him from modding drama and he was always entertaining and kind. You'll be missed Jerry and I hope you're still shitposting from other worlds than these

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respaaaaaj•

I'm really going to miss you buddy.

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Llim•

This is so horrible and unexpected :(

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SorryItsMyFirstDay•

It may be good to mention that we only discovered this today, and it probably happened back on Jan 5

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mindhowl•

Just checked my discord pms and he sent me an invite to a server on Jan. 4th. Crazy...rest in peace.

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SorryItsMyFirstDay•

my last DM from him was Jan 5 talking about broccoli

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MyNameIsUrMom•

he died because of broccoli, what a way to go out

shitpost for me up above king

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cazdal•

RIP Jerry, sad I didn't get to know you better.

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Snuffy1717•

Sorry for your loss :(

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TripleCerkies•

Oh, i didn't realise he had passed. I had been wanting to talk to him again for a while. I wish we hadn't drifted apart. I miss you Jerry.

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Biffingston•

Didn't really know him. But I too will mourn him.

I'm at an age where this is happening more and more... sighs

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Rest In Peace. Memento Mori.

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bad-monkey•

Godspeed, Jerry!

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Southernms•

RIP Jerry.

OP I’m sorry you lost your friend. Hugs.

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shaneoffline•

RIP jerrbear

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Merari01•

I'll miss you, Jerry.

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cakejerry_B0T•

He would have wanted you to patch things up with belle in the end

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