I never explained why I went NC

I didn't do it. I hoped she would realize by herself. Now I feel guilty, because she doesn't know.

Everytime she was calling out I was the abuser and I dared even say something to show her she was wrong in what she was doing, she didn't let me talk. She escalated, screamed, said horrible things to me. I never had the opportunity of telling her in my words what I was feeling. She was very convinced everything was about her, but would project it on me "You make everything about you!" if any situation made me visibly upset. I learned how to keep my pain to myself until it dried me out.

I'm still questioning if I was the abuser, but she made me believe that for so long and I'm finally breaking free.

Should I still tell her? What if she doesn't know and then proceeds to do it to a lot more other people?