Connecting to trainees
This is a miniature diatribe prompted by a draining day. Please pardon any rambling.
I am our station's trainer. Whenever we get a new CCA (about once a month), the managers have them accompany me for shadow day and then again for their week of OJIT.
Right now I'm training a person who could be a great carrier some day. They are analytical, physically fit, have a great sense of direction, and pick up the jargon and office processes quickly. They are also slow as molasses, even by the standards of OJIT, and think I'm persecuting them. When I give them advice on how to improve their technique, they tells me they thinks they're doing pretty well and should keep prioritizing process over speed. I believe that speed comes with time, but I also expect CCAs to acknowledge that their process is flawed when they take 40 minutes to do a 15-minute relay. They think I'm a taskmaster.
Although it would be tempting to say that I can tell whether a CCA will make it to conversation based on our time together, I really can't. There have been people who unsurprisingly washed out -- the gal who asked if I had autism and the guy who brought ripped Calvin Klein jeans to walk in -- but there have been plenty of people I thought were physically and mentally tough enough who didn't last two months, and a couple I thought would resign who are still here. It doesn't really matter what my first impression is, though; it's my job to put every CCA I train in a position to succeed.
I'm trying not to leave out context, but I honestly don't know how to proceed. How can I help somebody who is this defensive? Am I looking at this from the wrong perspective?
Posted Oct 1, 2021, 2:49 AM UTC · edited
This might be the most meaningful question I've ever seen in this subreddit. I wil try to help, but mainly I just wanted to say bravo for being so thoughtful.
My advice would be to pull back and try to not burden yourself so much with that responsibility; just in this specific case. Some people need to have some space and time to accept instruction or guidance. If the message has been communicated it's ultimately up to them to hear and receive. Switch it up and ignore how they're doing the job, talk about sports or something.
You've probably done all you can do at this point, it's on them now.