Ladies, I have largely given up on heels, thongs, and looking perfect - am I 'letting myself go'?

I love heels, but I can't wear them everyday. They kill my feet, and give me nightmares about being chased by an attacker, and then being stabbed to deathv because I chouldn't run in heels - dying of vanity. I wear heels maybe once per week for important meetings and then on special even events. Rest of the time I wear flats like this. they're comfy and fashionable!!

Also, I am so over lingerie. Thongs are uncomfy, and i find lingerie awkward - what am I supposed to do - say "WAIT! just a minute honey, I gotta go change in to my chrotchless undies and that lace bra that offers no support - be right back!" - i meam its unrealistic to wear that stuf under your clothes all day

I wear undies designed to make my bits look good fromthe outside like these seamless, UBER comfy undies from victoria secret , and a seamless bra like this - just a normal, underwire, non-pushup t shirt bra. I like collecting lots of colours tho. no lace - that make my boobs look bumpy on the outside of my shirt.

INstead of lingerie, I focus on working out and being healthy so that I can feel good ab0out my overall health (and look good naked!) - I feel like looking after my body is better than lingerie. Besides, its more fun to rip off the clothes right away!