Did I throw this game?

As you'll see if you take the time to watch this (thank you if you do!), we start this game off meh. However, our Anivia seems to know what she's doing and ends up 15-0 by the end of the mid-game. She then starts guiding the team, but things don't seem to go as she planned it, because she gets really angry at me (Ashe) and my friend (Malph) for how I play.

Does anyone here see what she was trying to do? I feel like she was probably the better player, so I feel like her idea must have been good, she was just not explaining herself.

What can I learn from this game? Here's the link: http://www.leaguereplays.com/replays/match/334289/

(Also, on a less important note, I don't understand how Talon gets so fed. Was that my fault? I didn't see what I could do to him, Taric and I chain-CCed him 2-3 times in lane with arrow + dazzle, and he just didn't die. I thought Talon was supposed to be squishy, what the heck. They had a support Sivir and still managed to win the lane)

Thanks in advance for your advice!