Stop putting the pussy on a pedestal. You're doing that every single time you watch porn.

Here's my motivation to you.

Being good with women is natural. She has as vagina. You have a penis. 'Nuff said. Porn and fapping are blocking you from being that cool, smooth mother fucker. Every guy has it in him. Do you know what fappin' and porn is doing to you? It makes you shitty with women on all levels. For me, it's..

• getting lazy with phone numbers. I don't call or text, and shabam! they disappear

• I act aloof when I'm around cause I have foggy brain (cause I janked the day of, or whatever)

• confidence goes down the drain. I'm the pussy who, if goes up, does a shitty job interacting with her.

But guess what happens when you DON'T fap? The exact opposite.

• I call those girls. make those bitches laugh. make them think, 'man, this is a cool guy. i wouldnt mind meeting up with him'

• I'm focused, I'm centered, and I'm not afraid to get physical with a girl. this is HUGE. having the confidence to get physical with a random chick at the bar (starting off with high fives and little hugs) goes a very long fucking way.

• confidence goes down the what? I'm sorry, I couldn't here you cause I'm DROWNING in it. I step in and own that shit on a very smooth level.

Every single time you watch porn you are putting that pussy on a pedestal.

Read that again. Remember it. Memorize it.

You are subconsciously giving a shitload of value to those girls on that screen. You don't even know them. Every time you whip your schlong out and jank to her (or them), you've become Beta. Simple as that. An Alpha dude (a guy who values his time and puts work into himself, aka hits the gym, goes out and has a wicked social life, doesn't spend all day on the internet, etc), a) doesn't have time for that shit and b) even if he did, he wouldn't, because it ain't alpha behaviour.

So, be that alpha guy. No, really. Don't just sit there and be like 'cool post bro, tell it again!'. Actually implement it and change yourself. Do better. Do it for you.

I'm off to the bar. Get off the internet!