Balancing teasing with rapport is difficult for me.

I have a very playful personality, sometimes it's borderline "douchebag" ish, but I am not like that. If I joke about who I am, I would say, "Clearly a model" while flexing and laughing.

Sometimes I play it too much and I'm not sure how to transition it. On a date I'll get to genuinely feel them out by learning about them, but I don't think I do it when I first meet them.

Comments?