[FR] Don't talk to a coworker three weeks later.

Met a bartender. Got #. Nothing came of it. Three weeks later, same bar, met a different bartender. She wanted coffee 100%.

Later that night, she texted, "So you asked my coworker out three weeks ago, too?" I told her the truth, said nothing came of it, and still wanted to meet up with her.

Zilch. Point is, if you hit on one bartender, give yourself a lot of time between the next one.