Girlfriend's Pregnant, will get an abortion (Overdone I'm sure)

Both finishing college now. And sorry if this is too common a theme but the title says it all. She's not going to keep it. Not sure how I feel about that but it's her decision. She doesn't want to talk to me until she's already done with it. I think that's a bad idea to do it completely on her own. She's a strong person but I don't think this is something anyone should go through on their own.

Can anyone offer experiences or advice as to how to help her when she says she doesn't want any? Or how we can expect our relationship to move forward? Again, sorry if this is overdone.