FFA Forever??
Hi Guys,
Slightly intoxicated whilst writing this but angry as hell. I am a guy in his late 20's who has been in a few long term relationships and very few brief encounters with other women. I am a strong straight and proud male, whom takes pride in the achievements in terms of career and lifestyle but i am yet to find the one for me. I don't know why i am writing this (my first reddit post ever :S) but i feel if I vent it, at least regardless of anyone seeing it, I will feel better.
I went out tonight with a good friend for a few beers. We ran into a bunch of people and one women in particular. I, like many ppl just want to let their hair down at the weekend and have fun and hopefully meet someone special if fate is so kind to intervene. I enjoy dancing and messing around on the dancefloor, and many ppl comment that I am pretty good, but tonight as well as 3 other different occurences, I have been questioned on my sexuality because of it.
I am not angry because of the thought of being considered gay, I am angry that women don't see me as straight because i take pride in my appearance (I'm no oil painting but i try to look half decent where I can), and I can dance semi decently. A women more or less came over and stuck her tongue down my throat to see if I was gay. I responded as any red blooded male and stuck mine down her and got a little frisky.
As soon as I laid drunked hands around her thighs and vagina region, she said to me "Have I completely misjudged u being gay" and she said, she still didn't believe me that I was straight. I basically got fed up and stopped answering her questions when i made it "blatantly obvious" that I was straight.
Has anyone else suffered a similar encounter and can lend any advice to prevent this happening again. As soppy as it sounds, I just want to meet someone special who likes me for me, and just see where life takes us.
Apologies for bad punctuation and spelling, a few too many tonight. This little text box has helped me get alot of what I am feeling out, so thanks reddit :)
TLDR: Went out with friends, met women who thought i was gay, kissed and fondled her. Still thinks I'm gay, cuz i dress quite smartly and dance pretty decenlty :S :S - Anyone any advice
Posted Mar 25, 2012, 2:01 AM UTC · edited