The comments are hilarious. She is upset he lost interest, guys saying she could have suggested anywhere but restaurant or place to eat, ladies saying he should have made the suggestion.
Posted Dec 10, 2021, 11:53 PM UTC
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The "restaurant date" is dead for self-respecting men. It's coffee, tea, or burger joint if i feel like it.
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Russia is the complete opposite of American dating.
I swear. In Russia a dude will take a girl out for their first dste on a walk in freezing weather. Stop by a Mcdonalds, go in alone. Eat a burger meal by himself, then go outside where his date is still waiting and continue the dste. No burger or even coffee for her lol.
Im not saying that should be the norm or should happen in America but that the level of expectation is worlds apart.
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Some people do that here too. The coffee date is one of the cheapest dates.
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Yes sir
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Lol, men don't understand how dangerous dating can be for women if they find the wrong man. It's safer for a woman to be in an open area with multiple exits should she need to book it. And it's funny because men call it paranoia when women want to have escape routes planned in case of a bad date, or have someone on standby for assistance if need be, but men call it "situational awareness" to know where all the exits are, and "tactical" to have an escape plan. She wasn't looking for a meal, she was looking out for her safety.
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That doesn't really apply in the context of this post.
The issue is the way he responded to her suggestions instead of just countering with something like a walk in the park or coffee he went angry route
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It absolutely does apply. She suggested an eatery or an open location for her SAFETY because she does not know this man or his intentions for her. And he decided to fly off the handle assuming she was just attempting to use him for a free meal
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What I'm saying is the safety issue is implied in a woman wanting to go out with a man. I'm not saying you're wrong. It's not like the guy came out the gate saying "I want to invite you to my house"
She could have left out the eatery and just said "I want to go to an open place, anywhere outside you pick"
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I agree with you
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I’m just leave this right here https://youtu.be/hne-QOvfUBY. Y’all carry on !
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“Foodie calls” 😔🤣is nothing sacred
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Asking for clarification seems to be a lost art nowadays. I've had a few men get trigger happy off of one word. Even though my behavior wasn't what they thought I was, they never bothered to ask for clarification, just quick to Judge Dredd me.
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She's upset because he asked, she gave him a positive response, and his reaction was to get angry. She says that flat-out.
I don't see anything in what she wrote that says her meaning should be second-guessed.
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It doesn't sound like she's upset he lost interest, just confused how he wanted to link and left the location open ended, she made a suggestion ("an eatery or an open place" which is still open ended), and instead of him making a counter suggestion he accuse her of only wanting him for food. Assuming she is 100% honest of how it went down, I'd the same way if I was her. That behavior is weird as hell. I could see if she hit him up first asking him to take her out to eat, then he'd be justified in his response.
An eatery can be a pastry shop but he freaked out for no reason.